Five Eternal Guidelines of YWD

There are five eternal guidelines of YWD by Daisaku Ikeda which are

- Be cheerful suns of happiness.
- Study the world's foremost life philosophy.
- Live your youth undefeated by anything.
- Engage in dialogue to foster friendship and humanistic ideals.
- Open the gateway to the eternal victory of mentor and disciple.

女子部永远的五项指针：

- 成为爽朗幸福的太阳
- 学习世界第一的生命哲学
- 度过不败给任何困难的青春
- 展开正义与友情的对话
- 开启永远的师弟胜利大门

Remember, as long as u still exist in this reality, in this world, there always Ikeda sensei's guidances to foster into part of your life.....
so, must be strong and won't be defeated by any obstacles!!

Be confidence, is the most important moment in your life!!



Be like Doraemon, will be happy forever!!
hehe......^^,

Manipulative Skills

Today, my lecturer, Mr. Bala had tough me a valuable lesson!! The final counseling topic being discussed in the final tutorial class is Manipulative Skills.

Manipulative skill is a skill that can use to control people thoughts, finding scapegoat from others, and worst make others feeling guilty. This skill often being practice by children, teenagers, even adults just to take attention from others people! They do it for no any reason why....... Not only this, they often act as a victim that try to gain power in their group. Therefore, unconsciously we find ourselves is on the defensive part.

For some people, especially parents feel difficult to deal with this of kids, and they tend to allow or follow of what their kids needs, what they wants!! To ignore their responses is not an easy task as they will try any offensive methods to tackle with! One of the most common reaction they try to do is by giving excuses that can convince others, some even may hurt others feelings too!!

Even though deal with them is not easy, there are some ways that can deal with them! One of the best technique can use is playing the victim role by convincing them and can make them feeling relieve. This technique especially useful when dealing with children whom try to find a victim and escape what they had did as "They will escape uncovered".

This sound familiar to the people whom like to act this kind of action since they were kids. Even though when a person will become mature as they growth up, but, this manipulative action cannot be change as this had become one of their habit dealing in their daily life. Only by changing attitude towards the people surrounding us can only change the habit that we use to practice~~

Thank You

Around these few weeks, i just felt my life had mess up with everything!!

the most critical moment is that, all people are boy-coating me, ignore my appearance...

i really don't know how to do, i think to end my life b4, but it is not worth at all by ending life without any contribution toward the society!!

I will graduate soon! And because of this, every course mates start to become selfish by not helping each other, while just pretending to see others' failure and they just hide behind others and gossiping about others people weakness as they think they are the best!!

Now, i start to realize that human will tends to behave selfish when a critical moments without giving a hand. and because of this, i start to feel that if my life keeps going on like this, not only i can't graduate, is my future road will be diminish into nothing and need to start all over and again!!

Anyway, because of this song- I Have A Dream dedicated for Daisaku Ikeda and his disciples around him. this song makes me feel like there is a tiny sparkling light in-front of me by guiding me to the future!! I start to believe my life always have hope!!

Thank You, Ikeda Sensei!

without your guidance, i think my life won't be so challenging!!

i will pay my gratitude by contributing all my spirit toward Kosen-rufu and the society!!

Best regard,

yaayuen